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Things you need to know before going into Magazine publishing

Things you need to know before going into Magazine publishing

Like what was mentioned in the Devil Wears Prada, a lot of girls right now will kill for the job that Anne Hathaway got in that movie. Magazine publishing is a pretty big industry with new titles being published every year. In fact, there are magazines that are dedicated in for every subject area imaginable— horses, antiques, coin collection. There is even a magazine for farming.

Unlike what was shown in the movie, magazine publishing is not always about the glamour and the freebies. In fact, when you get into one of those magazine companies, you’ll realize that it is not a tushy job after all. The work can be very hard and the hours horrifying. Some do not even go home for weeks when the closing of one issue is close by. So before you decide to apply in any of those magazines, here are some things that might make you think twice.

1. Dog eat dog world

Competition is tough in a magazine. This is especially true if you plan to go into magazine writing. There are only a few key positions that will be available for people and chances are they will go to those who have better connections within the company and in society. Fact of life is, you need to first BE someone before you get to hold those high positions as magazine editor. Because of this, the culture inside a magazine can be stressful. It can be a dog eat dog world where everyone is out to get anyone that steps in their way towards promotion. Besides with purely girls in the company, there is bound to be a catfight.

2. It’s a girl’s world

Magazine publishing can be dominated by girls especially those who are more into the fashion and beauty stuff. It being a girl’s world can be an advantage as you will be able to relate more with them and share their interests. It can however be different for a guy. So if you are straight and you want to work in magazine publishing, choose the magazines whose subjects are more oriented towards male pursuits like golf, yachting, body building. Men’s magazines will also have more male staffers but they may also have a lot of gay people.

3. Weird hours

People who go into magazine publishing especially the core departments that really work on the magazines until the publication will need to stay for hours in the office just to close pages. This is the unglamorous side of the job. Some would not even go home when the deadline is so near. The hours can be really weird especially when issues are being closed or photo shoots are being done.

4. Social events or boring conference

If you are not much into hobnobbing with the rich and the famous in the field, magazine publishing is not for you. The job does not only entail attending events and conferences and writing about it, you are also expected to socialize with these people and perhaps get them as advertisers or sponsors of the magazine.

People who work on more technical publications on the other hand have to endure a different thing— boring conferences. If listening to studies and experiments is not your thing, do not go into magazine publishing.

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Adding Beautiful Jewelry Into Your Wardrobe (2)

Adding Beautiful Jewelry Into Your Wardrobe

School teaches you about science and math and social issues, but you rarely learn about anything else in today’s school system. That’s why most people need little articles like these that are full of tips to help them out for any particular topic. In this instance, we’ll go over some great tips you can use related to jewelry.

When it comes to men’s jewelry fashion tips, it is important to consider that it you should limit the amount of jewelry you wear on your body at a given time. Too much and you will come across looking gaudy and possibly more feminine than you would hope.

Don’t be afraid to play with different textures in your jewelry designs. Incorporating different types of beads (crystal, pearl, seed beads, glass, plastic, etc) will add a degree of interest to any piece. Adding in alternative materials, like metal rings and even fabric, will help you to create memorable, one-of-a-king jewelry pieces that will be sure to wow.

Before you decide to purchase a piece of fine jewelry from an online auction site like eBay, be sure to do your homework. Check for feedback and ratings from other buyers, and carefully read the item description for information on guarantees regarding quality, authenticity, and any return policies. This will spare you a great deal of hassle if the item does not live up to your expectations.

If you are looking forward to saving money on your jewelry, but not sacrifice on quality, you should pursue buying synthetic gems. These gems are created in the lab, and therefore, have higher clarity and fewer inclusions, and are identical to real gems on the molecular level and are typically less expensive as well.

If you are low on cash but still want to make some jewelry, you can make paper beads! These are bright and colorful and also, very fun to make for yourself or if you have children. All you need is some old magazines that you may have laying around!

You should learn how to use the jeweler’s magnifier (loupe) so that you can see the inside of the stone and check to see if there are damages or chips on the inside of it. If there are any chips or damages that will greatly reduce the value of the stone.

When attempting to polish your silver jewelry, it’s always a great idea to soak it in a solution of water and white vinegar. Stay away from cider and wine vinegars. Go with white vinegar only. This will remove tarnish from your jewelry and give it a million-dollar shine in only a few short minutes.

Opals are beautiful stones, and not only naturally contain a myriad of colors, but also their base matrix can be any of a number of gorgeous colors, including the classic white and black, but also including beautiful blue or vivid orange matrixes. Just don’t let them dry out; wipe them down with water regularly to avoid cracking.

One of the biggest reasons that you need some great jewelry tips is that gold and jewels are items worth a lot of money. You need to protect your investment, and it doesn’t matter whether you’re buying, selling or storing your pieces of jewelry. Apply these tips and take care of your jewelry.

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Important Things To Consider Before Buying Anymore Skincare Products

Important Things To Consider Before Buying Anymore Skincare Products

Today there seems to be a million products but few solutions for skin care issues. Aisle upon aisle of expensive and attractively packaged items that may or may not do anything at all, much less meet the promises they make. This article will help you navigate through the confusing world of skin care and endless stream of unnecessary purchases.

Regularly exfoliating your skin is a quick, inexpensive, and easy way to appear younger and more radiant. Make sure you select a facial scrub with small grains, and gently rub it in circles on your face for an instant, at home facelift. Exfoliate once a week for the most optimal results.

Try to use ice if you have a bunion that feels swollen and hot. Ice can cool it down. Also try giving your toes a workout which can help your bunion as well as your joints. You can also try to find a pair of men’s shoes – which are wider than typical women’s shoes – to help you through a painful bout with a bunion.

Are greasy hair products the cause of your acne? If you have acne that won’t go away no matter what you’ve tried, the problem may lie with the hair products you use. Switch products temporarily, or try keeping your hair away from your face, to see if the acne improves.

To prevent breakouts of acne, try using facial care products that come in a spray-on applicator. This will keep you from transferring bacteria, oils and potentially irritating substances from your hands to your face while applying things like sunscreen or moisturizer. Having a more bacteria-free face can in turn reduce your chances of developing pimples.

Before going to sleep, clean up your face from any trace of make-up. Apply a moisturizer a few hours before going to bed so that it has time to penetrate your skin and will not clog your pores while you rest on your pillow. Apply lip balm and hand cream before going to bed.

Use witch hazel to soothe inflamed or itchy skin. Look for witch hazel that is NOT distilled and contains five to ten percent witch hazel leaf extract. Unfortunately the distilled version which is widely distributed has very little healing property. Find a health food store to purchase your witch hazel.

To prevent premature sun damage to your skin, it’s very important to wear sunscreen. Choose one that blocks UVB and UVA rays. Pick an SPF factor high enough to continue to protect you after it begins to wear off. For example, an SPF of 10 will drop to a very low protection of SPF 5 after you sweat for a bit or wipe your face.

As you have read, there are real solutions to skin care problems and real answers to your questions about it. Take what you have learned to heart and to practice. Spare yourself the agony of endless spending and trial and error. Be smart about your skin care by staying informed and knowing what works best for you, which you have hopefully learned today!

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Article Marketing: Tips And Tricks For Success

Article Marketing: Tips And Tricks For Success

These days it seems as if almost everyone is trying to get published. The competition is fierce. But fortunately there is also a magazine or journal for almost every subject, whether on the internet or in traditional print. These tips will help you explore the publications available and match your interests with one of them. They will also guide you through the process of submitting your articles to an editor.

Go for the micro-niche. It’s tempting to write highly sought-after content about relationship advice or internet marketing, but the problem is that everyone else is writing about those things as well. If you can write articles that serve a niche that doesn’t have much coverage, you can earn reader loyalty at a level that is impossible with more common topics.

Look at the resource boxes of popular authors on article directories. Take note of what they put in their box and then, visit their site, read their articles and try to figure out, just what they are doing right. Use this as the foundation for building your own unique spin as you start publishing your own articles.

Success in article marketing revolves around the content that you are publishing. Publish writings about any topic that is going to fit your preference, need or a solution to the issues that many readers may have. How-to articles are going quite well on many sites, so give them a go.

With there being so many different people on-line, you want to make sure that your advertisements are being viewed by the correct target audience. If your company sells women’s purses, it would not be very beneficial or profitable to market your product on a men’s health site. Being aware of your target audience could mean the difference between steady sales and slow business.

Don’t let your articles contain outdated material. Keep your eyes open about what’s hot when it comes to your given subject matter. Look at blog sites, question and answer sites and accept readers feedback as well. If your material is fresh, it will be interesting to read. People will be more likely to continue coming back for more.

One of the biggest problems marketers encounter with their article campaigns is that they do not complete enough articles to make an impact. Your articles do not have to be long, but they do need to be of a very high quality. And the more you write and the more locations you send them out to, the better your odds of success become.

Using the proper writing techniques, can be important for article marketing. The right style can attract readers, while styles that are too boring or otherwise undesirable can turn off readers and make them move on. One needs to think carefully about the writing technique they use in their article.

We hope these tips have made your path to publication clearer. There is a lot to learn about the publishing industry. But the reward of seeing your article in print is worth the effort. If these tips help you find the right publication and achieve success as a writer, they will have done their job.

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Port Authority Shirts and the Workplace: Answers to 5 Common Questions

Port Authority Shirts and the Workplace: Answers to 5 Common Questions

Business owners and managers sometimes miss golden opportunities to reinforce their brand and the image of professionalism for employees in the public eye. One such opportunity is the use of workplace clothing and custom corporate apparel, such as Port Authority shirts. Here are answers to five common questions about Port Authority shirts and custom corporate apparel.

1. When I think of workplace uniforms, I think of heavy-duty fabrics. How is corporate apparel different?

While rugged fabrications are appropriate for workers in certain types of jobs, corporate apparel is designed with fashion and comfort in mind. For example, there are a variety of Port Authority shirts, some of which are appropriate for casual office wear and others that offer a more professional look. Men’s Silk Touch Sports Shirts, for example, are short-sleeved and made from a lightweight poly/cotton pique, whereas Easy Care Shirts are long-sleeved and feature box back pleats, button-down collars, adjustable cuffs, and a single patch pocket. For women, Ladies Open Neck Blouses have a collar, front and back darts, and long sleeves. They are also available with three-quarter sleeves with fashion cuffs. The poly/cotton fabrication of these shirts makes them wrinkle- and shrink-resistant, while providing a look that’s always fresh.

2. Aren’t uniforms more readily associated with industrial and delivery companies, or those who are in blue collar jobs?

While uniforms and blue collar work go hand-in-hand, many white collar employees appreciate the ease and comfort of wearing custom corporate apparel. In fact, many who work out in the field give positive reports about the aura of authority and expertise that such apparel conveys. In addition, many medical and dentistry professionals say that having employees wear custom apparel lends a casual professionalism to the office atmosphere while allowing them to bypass personnel issues that arise as the result of enforcing dress codes.

3. My employees range in size from petite to very large. Some wear plus size clothing. Wouldn’t it be impossible to find one shirt that works for everyone?

Not at all! Silk Touch Port Authority shirts, for example, come in sizes ranging from Small to 10XL, and also are available in Tall sizes.

4. Is it possible to buy shirts that reflect both our company colors and our company logo and name?

Absolutely! Port Authority shirts come in 20 different colors, while custom embroidery is both stunning and affordable.

5. How can custom corporate apparel reinforce our company’s brand awareness?

Custom corporate apparel can enhance your company’s brand awareness in a number of ways. Embroidered logos or company names announce your brand to your customers or clients. In addition, you can use customized Port Authority shirts as promotional items and giveaways for trade shows, community events, charitable work, and contests.

Whether you have ten employees or 10,000, custom corporate apparel has a number of advantages, from standardizing dress codes to creating a corporate image to reinforcing brand awareness.

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San Francisco Schools Hire Mcgraw-Hill VP

San Francisco Schools Hire Mcgraw-Hill VP

After six months of interviewing applicants nationwide, San Francisco Schools district has filled its top position. Carlos Garcia, Vice President of Urban Markets for McGraw-Hill (educational publishers), has been selected as the next Superintendent of San Francisco Schools. Board members have been seeking a replacement since January after interim Superintendent Gwen Chan announced that she would not return to the post in the fall.

Garcia was voted in due to his experience in San Francisco Schools, strong results as Superintendent of other districts, and good reputation as a fiscal manager. Garcia served both Fresno, California and Clark County, Nevada as Superintendent. From 1988-91 Garcia was principal of San Francisco Schools Horace Mann Middle School. During his tenure the school improved its achievement scores and received recognition for its accomplishments.

According to Board President of San Francisco Schools, Mark Sanchez, “ We chose Mr. Garcia because of his past experience with San Francisco, his strong track record as a superintendent and his understanding of the challenges that our district faces.” The San Francisco Schools have dealt with issues like declining enrollment over the past few years, as families leave for better districts and private schools. Initiatives like the small schools program are one of many that the San Francisco Schools are implementing to reverse this trend. This change in leadership may bring some of these programs into question, although the school board seems confident that Garcia is in line with their priorities.

Thirty applicants were interviewed since January in an attempt to find a new leader for the San Francisco Schools. Garcia’s credentials includes a B.A. from Claremont Men’s College in political science, a M.A. in education from Claremont Graduate school, and an administrative degree from California State University at Fullerton. Parents in San Francisco Schools provided input to the hiring process in the form of both community meetings, and over a thousand surveys, to determine the criteria for their next leader.

Leadership of the San Francisco Schools will have a strong impact on financial spending and program funding. Given pressure to meet national No Child Left Behind standards, administrators in San Francisco Schools are constantly making decisions about how best to allocate funds. California’s poor reputation on educational priorities and spending was recently highlighted by a think tank study that claimed that the state’s educational priorities are in such disarray that the whole system needs an overhaul. While San Francisco Schools leaders may agree with the study, they still need state funding to run their districts.

The fact that Garcia led one of the nation’s largest districts, Clark County, gives the San Francisco Schools reasons to hope that he will use the same financial wisdom in this district. Six of the seven board members voted for Mr. Garcia’s appointment, with the seventh asking for more time to decide. Garcia will begin serving San Francisco Schools on July 16th, 2007.

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NPC Body Building

NPC Body Building

NPC is the National Physique Committee, a national organization dedicated to the pursuit of a body building program that will build great bodies. They are one of the most well-respected organizations in the body building world and sponsor several body building competitions throughout the year.

NPC body building competitions include the following:

* The Women’s National Fitness Championship
* Women’s National Body Building Championship
* USA Men’s Championship
* The IFBB World Championships
* The IFBB Northern Championship
* Junior USA Body Building Championship

And that’s just a few of the national championship competitions sanctioned by the NPC. When an event is sponsored by the NPC, it is well-respected. People know that NPC body building competitions are ones that can give legitimacy to them as serious body building athletes.

Their contests are held all over the country and in Canada, and have long been considered THE contests to enter and win. The NPC Nationals is the number one amateur body building competition and has launched plenty of hardcore body builders on to successful careers in the industry. They have full-time promoters working non-stop to make sure that every one of the NPC body building competitions are the best that they can be.

The NPC is an amateur organization. Becoming a member of the NPC and competing in their competitions can lead to membership in the world’s strongest body building organization – the IFBB (International Federation of Body Builders). The IFBB is a professional organization for body builders who make a living with their physiques.

NPC body building involves more than just competitions. They are dedicated to educating new body builders including women and teens. They also provide members with alternatives to steroids and information on how to sculpt the perfect body.

Anyone can become a member of the NPC. If you are interested in body building and possibly going pro one day, being a member of the NPC is an important part of your body building goals. All you have to do is submit an application along with a yearly membership fee. With that, you will receive the following:

* Six issues of NPC News magazine that features the sport’s up and coming new bodybuilding and fitness stars, along with contest results and contest information on future NPC events.
* Liability insurance (if you’re a registered contestant) covering you going to, from and at any NPC bodybuilding and fitness event.
* Eligibility to participate in NPC events and qualify for IFBB events.
NPC body building is a very important part of a serious body building regimen. Even if you don’t want to go pro, being a member of the NPC can be very valuable in your body building career.

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The Online Pharmacy: Answers to Five Common Questions

The Online Pharmacy: Answers to Five Common Questions

Research has demonstrated that the majority of people with Internet connections use online resources to get information and advice about health concerns, illnesses, and paths to wellness. Although online sources aren’t a substitute for visiting a health care professional, patients who do online research often arrive at their doctor’s appointments armed with knowledge about their conditions and possible treatments. More than ever before, patients are taking an active role in their own health care.

It’s no surprise, then, that the Internet has also paved the way for the online pharmacy. Here are answers to five common questions about the online pharmacy.

1. When is it Appropriate to Use an Online Pharmacy?

Although an online pharmacy isn’t appropriate for emergency medical situations, it can be appropriate for people who need treatment for conditions that do not require a physical examination by a doctor, or for ongoing treatment for existing conditions.

2. What Constitutes a Reliable Online Pharmacy?

In essence, online pharmacies are a new form of medical care in the United States. A reputable online pharmacy will adhere to governmental and legal regulations, and will refer your pharmacy order and questionnaire to a certified, licensed physician. Upon receiving approval for the prescription, the online pharmacy will use trained and licensed pharmacists to fill your order. They will then complete your order using the same high-quality medicines as your local pharmacy.

In addition, a reliable online pharmacy will list all of the medications it carries. For each medicine, it should list the uses for the drug, how it is taken, warnings and precautions, possible side effects, and information about potential drug interactions.

3. What are the Advantages of Using an Online Pharmacy?

There are several advantages to having prescriptions filled online by a licensed pharmacy. For those who have transportation or mobility issues, not having to leave home in order to get prescriptions filled can be a blessing. Those who work during the day may also prefer the convenience of having prescriptions delivered. In addition, many people prefer to use an online pharmacy in order to avoid embarrassment, and like that no prior prescription is needed.

4. What Types of Pharmaceuticals are Available?

While different online pharmacies carry different medications, a good online pharmacy will carry a wide variety of medicine. Prescriptions can be ordered for allergy medications, anti-depressants, anxiety, antibiotics, and arthritis, as well as for pain relief, skin care, and women’s and men’s health issues. Online pharmacies usually carry brand names like Allegra, Paxil, Propecia, Naprosyn, and Zyrtec.

5. What is the Ordering Procedure?

Typically, you first select the medication you need. The online pharmacy site will then take you to a secure page, where you will enter your name, billing address, and shipping address. You will also be asked a series of health-related questions and questions about medications that you are currently taking. Once you submit your order, a doctor will review it. Once it is approved, it will be sent to a licensed pharmacy to fill. The pharmacy will then send it to you via overnight shipment; in essence, it is a FedEx pharmacy.

A legal, online pharmacy with overnight FedEx delivery is a godsend to many people who are taking an active role in their own health care.

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Keeping The Advantage

Keeping The Advantage

As a participation sport tennis has always offered a lot of advantages to the common player. You can play tennis at almost any level, the equipment is not expensive, and you don’t need costly fees or appointments to get on a court.

However, while tennis may be popular with the common person, professional tennis televised and sponsored is quickly losing ground as a sport to be watched and enjoyed in a world where we have over 360 channels and still complain there’s nothing to watch. The classic grace and style of tennis finds many audiences lacking interest. While it’s fun to participate on the court, watching tennis poses significant problems for a fast-paced video age. There are three things that cause tennis to be losing its status as a primary sport and challenge tennis to admit and overcome these issues.

It’s dull

The world of professional tennis has certainly seen its colorful characters, from Bjorn Borg’s on court fits to Jimmy Connors celebrating and running around the court inspiring audiences to cheer for him. Men’s tennis was at one time a lively and unpredictable sport. However, the focus in tennis has shifted from personalities to professionalism and from antics to athletes. Professional tennis players such as Pete Sampras and Roger Federer are not only known for their amazing feats of skill with the racket, but for their overall dull demeanor. Focused, practiced and trained the athletes of tennis bring little individuality or characterization to the game. In a controversial move a tournament in Spain hired models to work as ball girls during one of the main tennis events, admitting that men’s tennis has become dull and unattractive. The founders of the event thought the ball models would add delight and even a little wanted distraction from the game in hand.

It’s long

While many small individual tournaments can be played over a weekend, few people but tennis enthusiasts get very involved in them. If you asked somebody outside of the tennis elite where the Virginia Slims competition is, they probably could not tell you where it’s located or what times it occurs. You find populist fans most often at the grand slams: Australian Open, French Open, Wimbledon and the U.S. Open. Unfortunately following any of these grand slams takes a consistent amount of time and availability because they take over two weeks to play out. Depending on where they are in the world, games occur at various times at night and are often rebroadcast during prime time. It’s only when you get towards the semifinals and playoffs that the major audience picks up. Media executives and tennis officials have been working for years on the problem of creating a sustainable interest in grand slam events and drawing attention to a tennis premier event.

Favors tradition over innovation

Unlike NASCAR, which unveiled its "car of tomorrow" and provides innovations in every season or the NBA, who provides new stars with the new controversies almost every week, new things don’t really happen in tennis. It takes a long time for an entering player to climb up to the professional level where they can receive attention, and the basic equipment of the game: the racket, the ball, and the court have been the same for decades. Minor changes in rules, spacing and traditions have occurred. But other than women adopting the Western grip or the controversy involving Monica Seles’ very loud volley returns, nothing new has happened in this sport in some time. While there is something of a gentle beauty and grace about the traditions of tennis, a sport known for its strategy over its ruthlessness, the lack of innovation has led to a pall in its overall popularity.

Tennis has something to offer anyone who wants to play or watch, but they must overcome these challenges to keep the game alive.

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The 10 Steps To Emotional Healing

The 10 Steps To Emotional Healing

You may think that emotional issues should be relegated to the couch in your local therapist or psychologist’s office, yet if you have experienced anything in your past that has left you feeling hurt, disappointed, or not enough, you are walking around with unresolved emotional issues. While you may think you are masking them effectively and they don’t affect your business, guess again. Have you ever met an irate or rude vendor that just seemed to have a “chip” on their shoulder? Have you had to deal with an employee who seems to be depressed or have sadness in their energy? Have you ever held back from sharing a business idea or your business vision with someone because you doubted that they would take you seriously?

All of these scenarios exist solely because of unresolved and unhealed emotional issues. Whether or not you are aware of it, I would be willing to bet that you are still harboring something that is holding back your success. Unless you are highly aware of the state of your heart and know how to walk yourself through the steps to emotional healing, you are more than likely slowing your potential success because of your issues.

Now for the good news…you can do something about it. As a matter of fact, you can be completely free of any and all emotional triggers, pain, and unresolved hurt. Although it doesn’t happen overnight, the old myth that time heals all pain is simply not true. You only heal and release to the extent that you handle the pain. While women usually cover their emotional issues with sadness, shopping, or developing a hardened attitude, men’s hurt shows up with exaggerated toughness or a larger than-life ego. It may also show up in cockiness or avoiding relationships that could potentially leave them open to future hurt.

By following the following steps, you can eradicate your messed-up emotions once and for all:

1. Acknowledge that incomplete pain is present.

2. Identify the source of the pain. When did it begin? Who is it associated with? When was the last time you remember not having this emotional pain?

3. Fully realize the depth of the pain you are feeling. When you allow yourself to feel it, how badly does it hurt? Where do you carry the pain?

4. Ask yourself what you made it mean about yourself. What conclusions did you draw about yourself? What did you attach or Velcro to what happened? How are you punishing yourself? How are you sabotaging yourself? Did you make it mean that you aren’t good enough or worthy enough?

5. Remember the negative and positive that you experienced. What lessons did you learn? What blessings have come out of the pain?

6. Express your pain. Let it out…bring completion to the situation without doing harm to yourself or anyone else. Go beyond the anger. Write it. Speak it. Scream it (into a pillow or on a walk in the woods).

7. Re-program yourself to redefine your reality. Work on the things that make you feel lovable and deserving of the best. Post what you really want to internalize and believe on your walls, in your wallet, on your desk and on your dashboard.

8. Pray! Pray! Pray! Take time to get in touch with God and the fact that you are a child of God. Give your burden to God. Release it. Ask God to take the pain from your heart and spirit. He will. You can wake up and no longer have to carry that raw feeling of hurt and pain.

9. Forgive yourself and the other(s) involved. They didn’t know better or didn’t act on what they know to be right at the time. Even if it appeared that they vindictively or purposely set out to hurt you, they did what they knew to do at the time. They may have even been doing the best they could at the time. Write a letter to every person you have not yet forgiven. Ask a friend to pretend to be that person and listen to all you have to say. Talk it out with yourself. Do what you have to do in a safe way.

10. See it, speak it, be it!!!

You can take any issue still hiding out in your emotional baggage (see Ericka’s article, Are You Masking Your Success? for a full explanation of your emotional baggage) and walk it through these steps and you will be released from it. The best way is to think through the steps and then write them down to get them out. Once you write them down, do something with them. Burn them. Tear them up. Bury them. Perform some ritual that represents letting it go. I once even went to a stream, ripped up my steps and watched them go downstream. Do whatever it takes to be emotionally free of your barriers to the fearless life you deserve. It is not only possible, it is time.